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498a Discussion Forum - View topic - Whats the strategy for looking for a new bride for a NRI?
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Whats the strategy for looking for a new bride for a NRI? 
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Hi,
I am based in USA. As I plan to move on with my life, I find it difficult to meet someone:
a) Who is traditional and will take care of my parents.

b) Who does not have baggage of past relationships? All women I meet are divorcees and all of them had filed 498a on their ex. I almost end up hating all of them.

What are yall doing?


Tue Jan 29, 2013 10:25 am
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I would suggest find someone in usa and marry there. do not get married in accordance with hindu marriage act etc. etc. register marriage in US only under US laws.

It would be better if you marry a white american girl than indian then no chances of 498 etc etc. otherwise the above will work.

regards

gav


Tue Jan 29, 2013 10:32 am
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what do you do in US bro? How old are you? Where in India are you from? any kids?


Tue Jan 29, 2013 10:37 am
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In mid thirties.

I understand the point about 498a risk with any India woman. Even if you marry them here, they can go to India and file complain there.

White women are worse.


Wed Jan 30, 2013 9:25 pm
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@randi_ka_pati

I agree with ur thought. Not all the marriages in India ends with 498A. Only few women willfully/wrongly guided will go for 498A. There is no data available regarding the ratio between married couples ending with legal problems and couples without any legal problems. We cannot simply neglect to marry an Indian woman due to the presence of draconian laws in this country.


Thu Jan 31, 2013 5:11 am
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randi_ka_pati,
Great user name and great sipirt to move on.
Finish your pending cases and then someone would come into your life to live with you forever peacefully.
We in India believe in destiny and God's grace ;So wait for both to bestowed on you but be ready to take a decision on that day in the meanwhile when the pending cases are over you would be relaxed and think better.


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Thu Jan 31, 2013 6:12 pm
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only 1-2% marriage are unsuccessful and rest are success
marriage is lottery
proper investigation about girl's family and girl's attitude and nature will be decrease the chances of unsuccessful marriage


Thu Jan 31, 2013 6:58 pm
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RKP,

Your inquiry is very valid. You feel stuck and want to move on, you have this rosy picture of better life with a mature woman but making it real is another story. Fighter, just know this that your experience has made you wiser and now just be open to the idea of meeting a woman for you and not for the sake of someone to take care of your family. Don't take this the wrong way, what I am saying is that a woman who loves you and wants to be with you, will be open to accepting your family. And who knows, knowing your circumstances, she may be willing to compromise for a live in..till then. So, beware of the women you meet, just meet and greet and get to know her and then move forward cautiously.


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Suggest look for a white lady or a fourth generation Indian in the US or elsewhere with no ties in India


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white ladies eat non veg,their food is different and so is case with 4th generation indian ladies here.They are even worst I believe


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naubahi - not all whites eat non veg so do 4th gen indian women overseas but they cannot resort to draconian laws like 498A, DV they rarely steal your money, ill treat and disrespect you and need not use you as a conduit for immigration to another country, etc.,


Tue Apr 02, 2013 5:41 am
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naubahi,

I guess you are from US. First thing get it right there is nothing like "TRUE LOVE". May be in novels but not in real life. Real life is full of comprimises. If you think thats a hassel instead o marriage Visit Vegas when ever you feel an itich (Hope you have medical insurance).


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I apologise in advance.

strategy is a wrong word to use here.

this make you no different to your bitter half

gav

PS: try using words like "the way" instead of strategy.


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In my case, it is the other way around....

My first motion has been filed.......

My bride has started looking for an NRI groom :-)


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Try to find who"s that guy n give that poor guy a heads up!

Cheers!!


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Its basically boils down to the chemistry between both of you and the level of understanding. Cast/colour/Race does not matter much.

We all jhave many friends, but some are close ones for whom we can spend time and Money, and we have some friends which we better tend to avoid.

Just like that! earch for someone with whom you can gel.

But never marry an Indian girl. In US you can do a prenup and marry!

In India things happen behind the curtain, in US things happens outside. if you marry in india you will feel that you got a 1st grade product but in reality only the package was 1st grade but the product was wordt than 3rd grade.


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It is all luck, karma and patience.

Strategy:

Do not compromise on the qualities and attributes you are looking for in your bride.

1)I would say, start by telling them "I live in a joint family"
2) Girl must not be single child and should have a brother
3) Is not interested in going to USA
4) Is not working or agrees not to work after marriage and look after family and kids
5) Religious

This above strategy work! Takes years to find the person, but you would find a person.

- Satya


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very good points satya.


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get a life u piece of shit shaadisanklp.com...

Honestly fuck of this forum... If i see you advertising here again then be prepared for forgery and misrepresentation cases on your website... nevertheless It laws..

Leave this forum alone.


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