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498a Discussion Forum - View topic - Hip Hip Hurray - The Much Awaited Order
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Hip Hip Hurray - The Much Awaited Order 
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Before anything else, I would like to thank you all for your blessings and inspiration. Without which the below order was not possible.

Now, the much awaited order, read on to know how it was achieved.

On the letterhead of DELHI COMMISSION FOR WOMEN

Ref No: xxx Dated xxx

The Dy. Commissioner of Police
XXXX
Police Station XXXX
Delhi.

The Commission is a Statutory body constituted by an Act of 1994 Govt. of NCT of Delhi.

The Commission has receieved a complaint from Ms. XXXX r/o XXXX against Smt. XXX r/o XXX and her relatives.

XXXX.....XXXX. The Commission wants you to register an FIR and take appropriate action against the respondent. Kindly do the needful at your end.

Your Sincerely,

Sd/-
(XXX)
Assistant Secretary, DCW

One of the adages I have always looked and lived up to and with is, Life is not fair, but Life never promised to be fair either. It belongs to those who never give up." I, alongwith another fellow sufferer and now a friend had tried various variations to achieve the desired ends of getting the FIR registered for DP3, Extortion and Blackmailing. Police/ National and State Human Right Commission and also the bete noire NCW and DCW, where the complaint was given by a female relative implicated in false 498-A. And when none other succeeded in concrete order despite continuous (not rigorous) follow-up (they still remain at various stages), the petition/ application/ complaint to DCW finally ended with the above order.

Afterall the implicated Sister/ Mother/ Aunt is a WOMAN too. Why does not NCW/ DCW/ Other such bodies listen to them? As stated earlier, it took full One Year, One Month and Nineteen Days to get to this order (I won't add further Seven Days of agonizing wait to get it in hand).

Things are far from over. But this is definately going to be a blow which would give a full blooded nose to the opposite party.

I just can't wait to be back in Delhi.

PS: HIMMAT-E-MARDA, MADAD-E-KHUDA.


Fri May 22, 2009 3:22 am
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Wow !!!. New avenue of Information.

Congrats Shonee!!!!. Now they had to deal with an another headache and their hopes vanished in thin air. The money they saw seems to be like a person wandering in a desert thirsty and everything looks like water from a far distance but only to find out after a hard trek, that it is sand and their energies sapped.

Bravo .. Good luck.

-savemyself.


Fri May 22, 2009 4:52 am
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congrats Shonee! You might win if you try but You have already lost if you Don't. Keep it up my friend.


Fri May 22, 2009 5:09 am
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Shonee,
Congrats! That you got it and also a new avenue for women harrased on the other side of wife now have an opening.
GREAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Fri May 22, 2009 5:17 am
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Congrats shonee.

May god be with you,my besst wishes for the future.


Fri May 22, 2009 8:55 am
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Congrats Shonee!!
You deserve this, is it wise to give to media?
May you get your son's custody soooooooooon...
May God bless you!


Fri May 22, 2009 10:25 am
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A day to rejoice for all law-abiding innocent men and women, and I hope that such a precedent is carried forward by each and every person who has been implicated in Dowry acceptance, for acceptance cannot be without offer of giving dowry. If 498A whenever registered, is registered simultaneously against btoh parties, I would support the continuation of it.
Now the onus of guiding fellow victims is on you Shoneeji. For you are one of the few who have 'been there and done that'.

When everyone hwo has a 498A going against them, puts equal effort in this DP3 approach, only then will the feminazis realize the Frankenstien they have created.
God Bless you Shoneeji and may you carry forward this momentum. Hannibal lost not becos he did not defeat the Romans, but becos he failed to make the last push at doorstep of Rome. This is a very imp first step, but must be followed up rigorously to have the full effect.


Fri May 22, 2009 6:28 pm
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I think Raj has raised a very very imp point. All such victories must be publicized to have an educating effect and a maximal deterrent effect on women thinking about abusing the law and getting away with it. I am ready to help Shoneeji with media coverage if he thinks fit.


Fri May 22, 2009 6:34 pm
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:-)

I am not the complainant in this. (Being a male, one can not be complaining to DCW).

The publicizing would be done at the right time. Be assured.

Regards,

Shonee Kapoor


Sat May 23, 2009 2:57 am
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Congrats Shonee Bhai.. I am sure the opposite party is grimacing (in pain).. Hope you get the custody of your son very soon.


Sat May 23, 2009 8:10 am
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The implications of this order are not just for Shonee's case. Note that the DCW has stepped in to urge an FIR in a dowry accusation complaint to it. This is a big news.
It took long and persistent effort from the complainant, the genie is now out of the bottle. This is precedent setting for future petitioners. Any woman falsely implicated in the dowry harassment can employ this route to seek redress. That would be husband's mother, sisters etc.


Sat May 23, 2009 3:37 pm
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congrats shonee ji,

thou late atleast DCW has realised that wife is not the only women in the family and that husband's female relatives are also women....hope they maintain and carry forward this attitude.

u surely have planted a bomb in their fort.....

sincerely wish that police takes up the issue wid in the same manner they do it when a wife files it....surely it is new way to mount an effective attack and make them taste their own pill.

regards and god bless u


Sat May 23, 2009 7:51 pm
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Heartiest congrats Shonee.... this is excellent news !... You deserve it !

Goes without saying that you have always been source of great inspiration/courage for many of us. Thanks buddy.


Sun May 24, 2009 2:08 pm
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Jaage hain der tak
Hamein kuchh der sone do
Thodi si raat aur hai
Subah to hone do
Adhe Adhure Khwaab
Jo pure na ho sake
Ek baar phir se neend mein
Who khwaab bone do

(Had been awake till late
Let me sleep some more time
Little night is left now
Let the dawn come
Those half fulfilled dreams
That couldn't come true
Once more in my sleep
Let me plant the greams again)

Breaths, Dharma, Patience, Aura and Me myself. (प्राण, धर्म, धैर्य, ओज और मैं स्वयं)


Sun May 24, 2009 5:36 pm
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congrats Shonee bhai....


Tue May 26, 2009 10:11 am
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