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Finally 498a and DVC cases were quashed in high court 
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I was married in 2009 dec and my wife filed 498a in may 2010, from other sources we came to know that they were demanding around 60 - 80 lakhs at that time in 2010. (Dowry was 10 lakhs)

I understood their plan that they married their daughter to me just for money and i decided to not to yield to them. The case ran from May 2010 till Oct 2013.
At last in NOV 2013 they agreed for a compromise for 18 lakhs. I made them to agree that they will get 4 lakhs when we get quash for 498a and DVC in high court and also to file for MCD at the same time and they will get remaining 14 lakhs after 6 months when the divorce will be approved by court.

our 498a and DVC was quashed by high court in NOV 2013 and we gave them 4 lakhs through DD and also applied for MCD on the same Day. last month my lawyer told that court is not accepting GPA for MCD now a days. Then lawyer again filed divorce from the girl side, saying that girl wants divorce from me. I am hoping that in next five months I will get divorce.

I am very happy and I feel that it is a victory to me. because at the end I made them to accept for just 18 lakhs

Thank you ShooneK for your help and thanks to 498a.org.


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Mon Dec 16, 2013 8:20 pm
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18 lakh is very huge amount, dont u feel robbed off; rather than victorious


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I would feel victorious If I get 18 Lakhs.


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victory my foot...you got robbed in day light

pleae pardon my tone


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Dowry was 10 lakhs bro,

just think that they gave us 10 lakhs for interest , it would be around 18 lakhs with interest in INDIA in 3 years.


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Whateva....Ahhh now I got it, so you did take dowry of ten lakhs !!!


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Mr.Kumar,
did you took the dowry in cash or cheque ?


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No offense to communities and sections of society where dowry is still the norm but please curtail this practice, especially demand of dowry


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DP 3/4 - giving and taking of dowry is offence in documents in India

but taking dowry is offence practically in India

giving small amount for marriage arrangements/gifts/shaguns and there after demanding huge amount for settlement of marital dispute is common practice in India is nothing but LEGAL EXTORTION

legal extortion may have different forms in form of marriage pension

1 slow and continous(Marriage pension)- maintenance case(125 crpc , 18 HAMA, 24 HMA, DV)

2 Instant and large(commuted Marriage Pension)- MCD and settlement for false case(DP3/4, 498A,406,DV etc.)

there is no law in India to stop Legal Extortion and men are the victims

Legal Extortion of husbands is Public Policy by govt of India


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unless these bitches are invested, marriages are going to become a lossy trade for men

this is good example where money taken before marriage provided him room to breathe while cases are on
your effective cost of getting rid of bitch is 8 lakhs, congrats!!


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This forum is meant to create awareness of the misuse of 498a. If people continue to take dowry, laws like 498a will exist and so will misuse


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So finally what's your plans, how do you plan to get marry again, what precautions are you taking?
What do you learn from your first marriage and what steps are you going to implement in second marriage?
Are you going to take dowry again in second marriage, so lost of 18 lac is going to come back?
Please advise


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India is known as a dowry land because of this practice since wheneva
Even if dowry stopped. . 498a and its other cousins will neva go...beacuse its a dukaan for the police and lawyers....thats y they keep getting richer
Morally ethically its wrong to take dowry
And men in india are destined to endure this worst hell created by all who misuse this law
But there is another thing called karma


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separating DP-3+4 from 498a is of academic interest only


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Mr.Kumar,
After settlement of 498a case, Most of our 498a brothers are in dilemma how to proceed next,
I hope your answers will be guidelines for them.


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for 4 years what you and your family has gone through and public humiliation and wastage of life's prime years in this bullshit, whats the value of that.

Is it all about money?

how can you post it as success story, this is shameful

i dont think its a success story


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Mr.Kumar,
I agree little bit with your personal situation and disagree with other statements.
If you attend SIFF meetings, The first and foremost thing they tell you is don't agree for extortion amount. As you are the software engineer (NRI) who afford to pay ransom amount and settle personal scores. But there are other members also who couldn't able to afford to bail security deposit money.
I read some fellow members stories where in spite of taking huge settlement amount filled fake charges again to extort more monies.
For every problem there will be a possible solution.
In your case, you could have easily taken divorce decree in USA and get married again as well.
After getting bail nobody bother your parents, they don't have to go on every date, just apply for personal exception and fight on merits.
How many people you want me to show you. I can send you the judgements copies also.
Most of the people get confuse 498a and divorce are both totally separate . You being in a foreign country has plenty of opportunities to pursue.
from your statements it looks you are getting remarried in HMA with possible little or no dowry as its custom in south India. So I wish you and your family shouldn't have to face 498a situation again, but unfortunately if it happened again within 1 year of your marriage, still you will be 31 years old and i'm sure you don't want waste your 10 more years fighting 498a case.
So what kind of precautions you suggest your fellow fighters to take for safe side. Please advise ?


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Mr.Kumar,

I Wish you the best of luck with your future endeavors. I strongly believe that 2014 will bring you happiness, health and will allow you to put all of your bad memories and experiences in the past.


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Everytime I see a thread saying 498a/DV is quashed in success stories thread. I get excited and hope that the case is quashed on legal merits and expect to read something worthwhile. however its disappointing to find that the case was settled for an amount.

Folks please rename your threads or open threads as "Settled for XX lakhs 498a/DVC withdrawn" that makes more sense, especially for those people who are pursuing quashes themselves and are looking for inputs/info

All cases are individual, and its the original poster's prerogative to settle for an amount so let it be, and kumar dude, please dont suggest that all south indians take dowry, I am south indian as it can get and I did not take dowry by either cash or cheque/dd

Cheer's and Happy new year


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paying a huge amount for settlement-whether a come under success stories or failure stories ?----lol


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Kumar
i am in same boat.Can you give me your mailid.I will contact you.


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DP3 on girls family would not work in Andhra Pradesh.


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@kumar_lfh

U said that u gave 18L against 10L.

Did u receive 10L in cash?

Did u do business with 10L & earned more than 8L?

If u actually earned more than 8L & the opposite party did not claim their 10L, then your decision was wise.

I would mention here that the term DOWRY is used by girls side only. For boys side it is SECURITY. When marriage takes place then the married lady is entitled in share of all the assets of groom. It can not be done in FREE, practically. Therefore, something, u call it dowry or security or gift, is given to groom ONE TIME on marriage. On the other hand, the groom maintains his wife for WHOLE LIFE. She is also entitled to the share of his property.

Now tell me, what is wrong in giving 5L, 10L, or 15L to groom in marriage.

Instead, it is wrong to marry without any security.

Rather, NO SECURITY taken from girl side will mean that she will walk away anytime from your home. This is not marriage, this is live-in.

So take enough security 2nd time also.


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dowry or no dowry .. the consequences of 498a/DV are same

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I am from AP as well. NO dowry marriages take place very very rarely.
that's true.

Ladies are taking this for granted and using it as a weapon nowadays.


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